Sad Girls Lens: Black Swan

Work better, faster, harder, stronger. January is a month filled with new year's resolutions designed to prey on our insecurities. When you’re a woman, the world makes sure you’re well aware of how you measure up (or don’t). In this column, Sad Girls Lens I aim to draw parallels between our blog themes and the intersections of mental health, femme identities, and film. This month’s theme (un)manifest destiny spoke to me and it said, “take a breath.” Sadly, the rest of the world is not likely to be on our sad girl level of enlightenment.

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Manifesting The Reality We Want To Live In

Imagination is a key component in manifesting the reality we want to live in. Many of us know what we don’t want, but we can’t say for sure what we do want. Are we thinking about it? Are we envisioning it? How can we bring it to life if we never give it any? Manifesting the world we want to see requires us being the change we want to see and staying true to that vision regardless of if others disagree.

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Black Girls, Here’s Your Guide to Insta’s Top Sex-Positive Blogs for Self-Love, Art and Activism

From #FreeTheNipple to #MeToo, online advocacy has proven it is a force to be reckoned with-- no matter your opinion on hashtag activism, it's undeniable that the reach of social media not only connects people like never before but also passes the megaphone to communities that have never had access to influential public platforms. Right now it’s in part where the newest wave of this generation’s feminism is going down, and sex positivity is a huge part of it. 

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Black Girls and Moon Magick: Finding Spiritualism As A Black Woman

But it's no secret that by and large, the Black community primarily identifies as Christian. And though that’s not inherently problematic, both the Christian and Black community have tumultuous relationships with black women, often demonizing our very existence as both a black person and a woman. As a result, the fight to take up space in the black church is a strenuous battle against the prejudices that come with our identities.   

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Your Sad Girl Tarotscopes - January

If we were taking lessons from the earth, winter would be a time of pacing yourself and not overextending your limited resources. Even though most of us are no longer tending to land we are tending to social obligations during the holiday season that harbors mental and financial strain. This month’s tarot reading focuses on giving us information about how to pace ourselves for the new year.

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Listening With Intent: Tapping Into You

Too often we find ourselves moved by the mundane responsibilities that we need to accomplish to live. You know working to pay the bills, getting lost in taking care of necessitates while giving no thought to getting where we want to be. Our truth becomes a whisper that we barely hear until it’s screaming at us in a circumstance we didn’t want to happen. 2020 is a wake up for us all!

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Capricorn Szn Insights

In this time, we are being called to feel our feelings, allowing ourSelves to be consumed and transformed by them. We are being called to have compassion for ourSelves enough to forgive ourSelves for the ways that maybe we fell short of standards for ourSelves, and to have that same compassion for others. We are being called to forgive-- to free ourSelves of the past pain that has been tethering us to the same narratives, the same lifestyles that we are so tired of and dissatisfied by. 

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